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What is a good parent?

Av onessan - 11 juni 2015 07:00

My baby boy and I are sitting on a train on my to visit my pappa, brother, sister in-law and therie beautiful girls.
It left super early this morning 05:08?
Right now baby is on the floor sleeping and I wish it was that easy for me. But instead I am sitting here thinking about what makes us good parents.
You see I had to go to the bathroom and suddenly I was in a dilemma " is it ok if I leave my baby,sleeping on the floor, while I go and pee?"
Is there a right or a wrong in this situation?
I am traveling alone with my 8 months old baby WHO is sleeping in a deep sleep on the floor safely it should be ok to leave him on the floor for like two minutes.

But I start to think how it would look to other people if I leave my baby to go to the bathroom.

I went to the bathroom. As I was sitting on the toilette my heart was pounding fast and I was nervous.

I got back and everything was fine and I was a happy camper.

Am I a good parent?

Are we good parents that leave our chuildren to go pee?

How about when we close the door for just one sec to take 1 minute to our selfs when the crying wont stop?

Or how about when you visit family and the moment you walk through the door you hand your baby to the grandparent standing closest to you and don't see your child for the rest of the weekend? (excepted for when there is a popy diaper)

80% of the time I feel guilty, does anybody else?

I feel like eyes are on you all the time.

What you feed your baby, what cloths he/she wears, how develpoed your child is and how calm and collected you are as a parent.

It is enogh to make you go mad.

What is a good parent?


 
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